We have moved house again, seriously... I have become a turtle and very slowly I hulk everything from one place to another with us.
In the past 24 months we moved house four times.
4 times!
A few times were of my choice, and a few others had to do with 'situation'.
I am completely sick of moving and never want to move house again, it costs a lot of money, it's quite messy, and I seem to have lost all my essential belongings in the process. Money included.
I lost the:
Corkscrew
My fancy cereal bowls
All cutlery
A few mugs
And every single love affair and romance I ever had; which was rare for me because I hung onto old flames like trusty Clarks shoes. I think I dropped them all inside the M25 never to be found again.
Then we moved into our new house and I held an unpacking party, there were lots of items missing and in some ways it was like we had half a home.
Salt: no
Pepper: no
Spoons: no
Wine glasses: no
Soap: no
Toothpaste: no
Mummy friend: no
Also missing at our unpacking party was one of our mummy friends.
Of all the things we lost during our move, what I miss the most is our mummy friend. I was so looking forward to spending more time with her once we lived closer again. Cups of tea. Chats about whether the kids should have yet another games-type-console-thingy. Exams, school places, attitudes.
It takes a long time to make good mummy friends; we're talking all the years of infants and juniors standing in the cold in the playground.
Our mummy friend went into hospital, and the following week she didn't come out.
5 comments:
You’re right, moving is not fun, it’s downright exhausting.
Especially when it’s within a short period of your last move, and the one before that, and the one before that.
But it’s new, and new is often fun.
New air, new space, new ways of doing everyday things.
And new NEIGHBOURS which, if you’re lucky, can open up a whole world of new found fun and friendship.
I'm sorry about your mummy friend.
That must hurt. A lot. I'm sorry xxx
It's funny the way mummy friends become real friends, isn't it? A long, slow process. So sorry to hear you lost yours.
I'm sorry about our mummy friend too. I miss her, but iI can't imagine it compares to how her family miss her.
Little sigh. but thanks x xx
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